Sharing what I learn from life’s adventures, experiments, and failures.
Recent Posts

Thoughts On Being an HSP and a People-Pleaser
Being highly sensitive means I see the subtle stuff—and being a people-pleaser means I try to fix it, even when no one asked.

Grieving the Joy That Wasn’t
Some grief doesn’t come from what we lost; it comes from what never got to be.

Unplanned, but Not Unprepared
I plan and plan. Should I plan to not plan?

Teaching Without Teaching (and Hopefully Not Breaking My Neck)
Can someone in their 40s safely learn to flip on the trampoline? I’m in the process of finding out.

What If 'Everyone' Just Hasn't Noticed Yet?
Sometimes it feels like it’s me vs my kids. But their allies are the rest of the world.

An Actual Conversation That Shows How I Use GPT
I share an example of how I use chat GPT to consider different perspectives.

Endings Are Just Sneaky Beginnings
You probably know this already. But I didn’t.

Freedom to Be a Fool
Asking for bad ideas had another purpose I didn’t realize at the time.

Infiltrating My Kids' Routines... With Good Habits
We snuck one habit into our kids’ routines. Can we do it again?

Why Compliments Are Hard to Hear
Why do I want to pop the balloon?

Learning to Be the Dad I Needed
Trampolines are good for connection?

Permission First: A Kinder Way to Help
A tool tell to help me know when to help.

My Light Wasn't Dim — It Was Different
A friend asked me about Buddha’s last words.

Trading Southern Charm for Something Deeper
I share a song; a friend responds with a lesson.

A Letter to My Outie
I take a note from Dylan’s Outie from Severance.

This Post Brought to You by Thinking
A small thing I’m proud of.

Rewriting a Story I Tell Myself
The storyteller in my mind needs some writing classes.

A Whiff of Dinner Discontentment
My nose gets one whiff and I make an emotional u-turn.

Dressing Up to Stay In
Why my wardrobe has slowly gotten fancier…on average.

Nine Months
A poem about my mind and my body working out the emotions of my partner getting deployed for nine months.
